The child who threatened to "piss" on the floor was merely baiting Missturner, as was the little boy who told her to write the date and title on his paper for him. Unfortunately, some people never outgrow these behaviors. Missturner is absolutely justified in being offended. If a child had said the same to me, my response would have been less polite than hers. I am not one to enable antisocial behavior, and the language described is antisocial. I've lost count of the number of children I've seen die or go to prison because the adults in their lived failed to live up to their responsibility to shape disciplined, honorable, and respectful human beings, because it was simply too hard to do, or because of some misguided notions of rights and freedoms.