I have a book club that gets together every other week for dinner, wine, and conversation that often lasts 2+ hours. I plan to go... but then the day rolls around and I just feel so tired, stressed and worn out that I don't wish to go do anything but relax and/or exercise. I do get out on weekends, but wonder if I ought to push myself to do these weeknight dinners? The only reason I would go tonight is because I feel guilty for not going the last several times. I might also note that 2/3 of this group has gotten engaged, married, gotten pregnant, or had a baby in the last year. Others are already married at least. I can't even think of the last date I had...... so I feel like that might be part of why I don't feel like going tonight to celebrate another engagement.... they briefly discuss that they need/want to set me up, but so far nothing has happened with that. Not to be mopey, but I just feel so.... unaccomplished with this group (in the marriage/baby area). Am I being a party pooper? Do you guys make a point to do things with friends during the week?